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chunkysoup
07-07-2005, 12:47 AM
Well what happened was she told me to call her the day after to hang after work if i had time. So I called and thats exactly what we did. We ended up having dinner then a movie together. During the movie we got really close etc etc. By the time we walked out we were holding hands and huging. By the end of the night we finished with a kiss and her asking whens the next time she would be seeing me. But when i called 2 days after she was telling me that she was busy and didn't know her schedule. Then the day after i asked but she told me what was up with her schedule etc etc for the week. So was the whole night just both of us caught up in the moment or does she want to still see me? I'm :tch:
networkguy
07-07-2005, 12:51 AM
Patience my young padewan. If she is sincerely interested she will call you, don't be to hot to pursue her, that might turn her off, but don't wait too long either or she will think your not interested.

NG
glitch
07-07-2005, 01:12 AM
You should have treated her like a jerk. Women like jerks...You messed up big time. Cut your loses and move on.
Ken_ver_1_5
07-07-2005, 08:57 AM
Patience my young padewan. If she is sincerely interested she will call you, don't be to hot to pursue her, that might turn her off, but don't wait too long either or she will think your not interested.

NGGood advice
Exmortis
07-07-2005, 09:02 AM
Dude... The best advice I can give you is not to get involved with someone at work. I've seen many disasters resulting from failed relationships with a co-worker...

Or am I reading your post wrong?
reiver
07-07-2005, 09:30 AM
I don't know my schedule = I'm not interested
Mischief007
07-07-2005, 12:54 PM
Can't live with them and definitely can live without them.

I've stopped trying to understand because they themselves don't know what they want. Once they figure that one out then I might actually be interested.
peavyjay
07-07-2005, 04:41 PM
She wants nothing to do with you, move on. If she did, she would of called YOU. Leave her alone before she calls the cops on you. :) One more word of advice, DON'T post your love life problems on the net.

Cheers, and a have a beer on me.
chunkysoup
07-07-2005, 05:46 PM
heh so i guess dating with people that you've known fairly well for several years just doesn't work well.
Kelisis
07-07-2005, 07:12 PM
Dude... The best advice I can give you is not to get involved with someone at work.
So true - just ask Peter McKay :D
kyobukan
07-07-2005, 07:20 PM
4 some reason good/nice guys finish last. she has your number, let her call you.
frostyone
07-07-2005, 07:56 PM
Grasshopper.:
Do not dip your pen in company ink.
SuperFriend_XP
07-07-2005, 08:51 PM
Like Travolta, be cool. Don't put yourself in a position where you're expecting something to happen. If it does, great, but if it doesnt, who really cares? Theres a reason why women outnumber men on Earth :)

and where did my post count go? :(
Kelisis
07-07-2005, 09:03 PM
Bottom line is to simply tell her how much you enjoyed her company and would like to see her again, and then back off and let her make the next move. Don't force the issue. In the meantime, spread your wings and go out with other girls. Don't get hung up exclusively on her.

There's lots of fish in the sea. You just gotta use the right bait to catch 'em :D
Law
07-07-2005, 10:54 PM
I don't know my schedule = I'm not interested


Exactly, everyone knows their work schedule.
Quintin
07-07-2005, 10:56 PM
Dude... The best advice I can give you is not to get involved with someone at work. I've seen many disasters resulting from failed relationships with a co-worker...

Or am I reading your post wrong?
I agree don't dip the quill in the company inkwell
Quintin
07-07-2005, 10:59 PM
So true - just ask Peter McKay :D
Had that been a strong relationship it would of survived....
Kelisis
07-07-2005, 11:05 PM
Had that been a strong relationship it would of survived....
It suppose that one would have if Mckay had also jumped to the Liberals :D
chunkysoup
07-08-2005, 12:57 AM
Exactly, everyone knows their work schedule.
Well it wasn't the work schedule she has for this week but for the next cause she only works part time so she gets different shifts and stuff. Plus i did tell her that i was busy most of this week when she asked me when we'd do this again.
Blueharp
07-08-2005, 01:07 AM
heh so i guess dating with people that you've known fairly well for several years just doesn't work well.

Yep, that's another way of saying "we are just friends", maybe at least if you asked her ;)

That's just my guess..

Good luck though...
freestylegreek
07-08-2005, 05:08 PM
I bet she is a ****. I know alot of girls that get close to a guy and then start saying something about im so busy. They just love the attention.
SuperFriend_XP
07-11-2005, 12:55 PM
"I bet she is a ****"

anyone want to buy a vowel? is the controversial U even a vowel? or was that W...
SuperFriend_XP
07-11-2005, 02:48 PM
but yeah, freestyle's right. Most girls are alright, but some just really know how to "urinate me off". Never let a chick get the best of you, unless she really is worth it.
freestylegreek
07-11-2005, 08:55 PM
I dont let any girl get the best of me. I've wasted enough of my time on her. I just talk to them and thats it but whatever they want I will see if its worth my time. Trust me I might be young but I had too much crap put on me to trust alot of people.
SuperFriend_XP
07-12-2005, 12:31 PM
I dont let any girl get the best of me. I've wasted enough of my time on her. I just talk to them and thats it but whatever they want I will see if its worth my time. Trust me I might be young but I had too much crap put on me to trust alot of people.

Take it easy freestyle, some of us just had to learn the hard way. Big pimpin' baby ;)